"It is better to understand the ground of your own behavior than to understand the motives of another." - Dag Hammarskjöld

 “And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend, ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,’ when you can’t see past the log in your own eye?  Hypocrite! First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend’s eye.” - Jesus, as quoted in Matthew 7:3-5 NLT